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Odette – written by Marilize Roos

Odette extract

Odette Lindholm has known for some time that she’s attracted to women―not men―but somehow she just can’t find a way to tell her family.  The matter is moot anyway; with her struggling business and her long hours, who has time for a love life?

When she finally accepts her brother’s invitation to visit Club Angelus, she is drawn to a beautiful submissive at the club and decides to explore her new role as a Domme.  But when her new submissive’s ex-boyfriend joins their relationship, she discovers a universal truth: people are complicated.

Because not only does it feel natural to wield the whip―sometimes it feels just as good to be on the other end of the lash.

EXCERPT:

    Somehow, Odette was different this time.

             Faye studied her Domme from the corner of her eye. The difference between Odette this night, and Odette of a week before, was night and day. Odette the week before, had seemed lost and overwhelmed. The Odette currently perching on the edge of the desk, legs crossed and ogling Faye’s ass, was a Dominant, and her presence made her arousal fizz in her veins.

             She’d changed into the same school uniform from the week before, tying the tails of the white shirt into a knot just under her breasts and knotting the striped tie around her throat without threading it through the collar. Instead of pantyhose with the polished Mary Janes, this uniform was issued with a pair of thigh-highs.

             She studied Odette for a moment more before she segued into character and flounced over to her seat in the front row. She slid into the desk and slouched in the seat; on a whim, she spread her knees to tease Odette with her bare pussy. She caught Odette’s eye and ran the tip of her tongue over her edge of her top lip.

             “Miss Drummond,” Odette finally said, lacing her fingers together and resting them on her knee. “This is your second time in detention in one week. Do you care to share with the class what you have done to earn yet another punishment in such a short a space of time?”

             “I didn’t wear my regulation panties under my uniform skirt,” Faye said, affecting her most innocent expression. She had no idea how she managed to keep a straight face and not erupt with laughter.

             “Is that so?” Odette asked. She looked at the mirrored window at the back of the classroom, giving a small nod that had Faye glancing over her shoulder to see what she was looking at, but all she saw was their reflection. “That is a very serious offense, young lady―serious enough that we’ll need to involve the principal.”

             Faye frowned in confusion; this wasn’t in the script she’d had in mind.

             A pair of footsteps at the door to the classroom drew her attention and she froze when she saw Philip enter, looking as handsome as ever in his suit and white dress shirt. Her heart tripped into an excited canter at the sight of her old flame, before her better sense reminded her that they were over―she was Odette’s girlfriend and submissive now.

             “Miss Drummond,” Philip said with that stern expression that always made her wet. “Why am I not surprized?”

             “Principal Greyling,” Odette said with a significant look at Faye. “I am so glad you’re here, Sir. I’m afraid I have my hands full with Miss Drummond here. It seems she’s a repeat offender, with no regard for the dress-code. She just can’t manage to wear the correct panties under her uniform.”

             “Is that so, Miss Drummond?” Philip placed his toybag on one of the empty desks and stopped in front of Faye’s desk. He placed a finger under her chin and looked her in the eye. “And what colour are these panties supposed to be, hmmm…”

             Colour.

             What colour am I?

             She licked her dry lips and glanced at Odette. At her Domme’s nod, she met Philips’ gaze again. “Green, Sir,” she whispered. “The colour’s green.”

             He let out an almost imperceptible breath. “So you do know the correct uniform,” he mused.

             “Yes, Sir,” Faye lowered her eyes, unable to meet the sense of authority that emanated from him. Her body fell back into old habits, responding to him with arousal as it always did.

             “Perhaps you need a little… physical reminder to be good,” Philip mused. “Bend over your desk, Miss Drummond.”

             “No. No, please, Principal Greyling!” Faye played along. She had a pretty good idea what was coming.

             “I won’t hear ‘no’ for an answer, Miss Drummond,” Philip said.

             “Yes, sir,” she muttered, sliding out of her seat and bending over the flip-top desk. She braced her elbows on the downward slope and arched her back to present her derriere, and could feel both Odette and Philip’s eyes taking in their fill of the view.

             Philip rummaged in his toy bag. “So, Miss Lindholm; for stubborn little girls, we need to employ a more… physical reminder to be good.” She glanced over her shoulder and saw him hold up one of her favourite anal plugs. “I’ll let you do the honours.”

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PROSTATE CANCER

Prostate cancer is the most commonly diagnosed cancer in men. Globally, more than 1.4 million men are diagnosed with prostate cancer each year.

Know the facts and take action early.

 

EARLY DETECTION IS KEY.

 

The difference between early detection and late detection can be life and death.

 

HERE’S WHAT YOU NEED TO DO, AND WHEN.

 

When you’re 50.

You need to have a conversation with your doctor about PSA testing.

If you’re black, do it at 45.

If you have a family history, do it at 45.

 

WHO’S AT RISK?

 

Your risk of developing prostate cancer increases with age, but that doesn’t mean it’s a disease that only affects old men. Prostate cancer is the second most common cancer in men worldwide. Men who are black, and men who have a family history (a brother or father with prostate cancer), are 2.5x more likely to get prostate cancer.

 

If you’re 50, you should be talking to your doctor about PSA testing. If you’re black, you need to start that conversation at 45. And if you have a brother or father with prostate cancer in their history, do it at 45.

 

WHAT’S A PSA TEST?

 

It’s a simple routine blood test.

 

It’s used to determine the measurement of Prostate Specific Antigen (PSA) concentration in the blood, it is the primary method of testing for prostate cancer. You should be talking to your doctor about whether testing is right for you.

 

SO WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DO?

 

Go to the doctor.

Ask about PSA testing.

Catch prostate cancer early.

 

THE FACTS ABOUT PROSTATE CANCER

 

Only men have a prostate gland. The prostate gland is usually the size and shape of a walnut and grows bigger as you get older. It sits underneath the bladder and surrounds the urethra, which is the tube men urinate and ejaculate through. Its main job is to help make semen – the fluid that carries sperm.

 

Prostate cancer occurs when some of the cells in the prostate reproduce far more rapidly than normal, resulting in a tumour. Prostate cancer often grows slowly to start with and may never cause any problems. But some men have prostate cancer that is more likely to spread. These prostate cancer cells, if left untreated, may spread from the prostate and invade distant parts of the body, particularly the lymph nodes and bones, producing secondary tumours in a process known as metastasis.

Detecting prostate cancer

Not everyone experiences symptoms of prostate cancer. Many times, signs of prostate cancer are first detected by a doctor during a routine check-up.

Some men, however, will experience changes in urinary or sexual function that might indicate the presence of prostate cancer.

 

Signs and symptoms

  • A need to urinate frequently, especially at night
  • Difficulty starting urination or holding back urine
  • Weak or interrupted flow of urine
  • Painful or burning urination
  • Difficulty in having an erection
  • Painful ejaculation
  • Blood in urine or semen
  • Frequent pain or stiffness in the lower back, hips, or upper thighs

Treating prostate cancer

 

Treatment options are many and varied. Testing still can’t answer lots of key questions about disease aggression, prognosis and progression.

If you have been diagnosed with prostate cancer, it’s important to keep in mind that many prostate cancers are slow growing and may not need surgery or other radical treatment

 

Treatment options include:

  • Active Surveillance
  • Prostatectomy
  • Radiotherapy
  • Hormone Therapy
  • Chemotherapy

Choosing a treatment for prostate cancer

Aim to be ok with the treatment decision you make, take risks and benefits into consideration.

 

Learn what you can, make use of the quality services and resources available. When making treatment decisions the following is recommended:

 

Make a decision after a treatment recommendation from a multi-disciplinary meeting (where available). This meeting would ideally consist of input from the following specialists: urologists, radiation oncologists, medical oncologists, radiologist, nursing and allied health.

Seek a second opinion for a recommended treatment option that is right for you, from both an urologist as well as a radiation oncologist.

Enquire as to whether a specialist is part of a quality improvement audit, such as a registry.

 

Utilise the cancer support services available in your country to increase your levels of information and understanding around treatment options, and potential side effects. Phone Prostate specialists

 

Email, Phone or WhatsApp CANSA:

  • Email: info@cansa.org.za
  • Help Desk: 0800 22 66 22 (toll free)
  • WhatsApp: 072 197 9305 (English and Afrikaans)
  • WhatsApp: 071 867 3530 (isiXhosa, isiZulu, siSwati, Sesotho and Setswana )

Approach your GP if you have concerns or want a second opinion.

Ongoing side effects of prostate cancer treatment

 

Depending on the treatment you undergo, you may experience some of the following

  • Incontinence (involuntary leakage of urine)
  • Erectile dysfunction (difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection)
  • Weight gain due to hormone therapy
  • Depression

These side effects have different durations for different people.

 

Because a side effect of treatment may include erectile dysfunction, prostate cancer can have a serious impact on intimate relationships. As many people who have been through the journey will tell you, prostate cancer isn’t just a man’s disease, its a couple’s disease. Make sure you involve your partner as you think through the various treatment options.

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To Groom Or Not To Groom

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Roleplay Revelations

Most fantasies we have are shame-based. For this reason, they are not spoken about much. However, having sexual fantasies is completely normal, and in fact, is very healthy. Fantasizing about sex can be good for your sex life and relationship. It can also work as an antidepressant, a way to escape reality; it is a way of satisfying curiosity, releasing aggression, and suppressing negative feelings. But do we really need all this justification of fantasizing? 95% of us think that the arousal factor is reason enough.

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In our modern lifestyles, we’re all running around with our busy schedules, and the sad reality is that a lot of us don’t ever take the time to indulge our sexual needs. We have excuses like I have a headache, or it’s since the kids were born things have slowed down. But the reality is that a regular, healthy sex life will help us cope with our busy lives. Here are 7 reasons to Just do it!

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6 Valentine’s Tips to Make Sure the Night is Red Hot!

Make sure all of the senses are stimulated and tittilated. Burn candles to set the mood to ultra-romantic. These along with you and your sexy lingerie take care of sight. Play some soft, easy listening music. Avoid anything with lyrics. You want their attention on you completely, not mouthing the words to their favourite song. Put a faux fur throw, or something equally plush on the lounge floor.